Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Because He Proposed 3 Years Ago

People say they want to be surprised by their engagement ring, and while this is romantic I love that I was able to be involved in the process of mine. Before I got engaged, I really had no idea what type of ring I wanted. Everything was pretty to me--sometimes I wanted a marquise diamond, other times I wanted the princess cut. Then, in my senior year of college, there was this girl who always sat in the row next time mine and a few seats up, and she had a round diamond. Every class I watched it sparkle as she raised her hand; it was dazzling. I finally decided I wanted a brilliant round. As it grew closer to when I knew Nathan would buy a ring, I began looking for pictures of what I wanted. I had a picture in my head of my ring, but the design was surprisingly hard to come across. I began searching magazines and online, and finally found my ring on a website (right: picture from website), but we were on a budget. We went to the Jewelry District in L.A. looking for deals, we found exactly what I wanted, but the price was still a little steep. After L.A., I waited to hear what Nathan thought was best. Eventually, Nathan came across a resource. One of his friends mom's ex-boyfriend was a jewelry designer and was willing to work with Nathan. Nathan met with the guy, showed him pictures of what I wanted, and told him what his budget was.

Nathan was there through the whole creation of my ring--from the time is was just scattered diamonds, to a mold, to metal, to gold, to white gold, to my engagement ring and wedding band. As the process progressed I received emails of simulated pictures of the ring which was so exciting for me to see how it was all coming together(see pictures above and right).

I love that I got exactly what I dreamed of. I love to think of all the effort Nathan put into this ring to get me just what I wanted. And I love that my ring is truly MY ring in that it was created and designed just for me. I still look down with admiration and love of my ring to this day.

April 1st is the anniversary of the day Nathan asked me to be his wife.


Here is a link to the blog I wrote last year about Nathan's proposal:

http://melodysvoice.blogspot.com/2008/04/two-years-ago-today-nathan-proposed.html#comments

4 comments

  1. you DO have a gorgeous ring. It's fancy and dazzling...just like you.

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  2. Great story, thanks for sharing it. So romantic!

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  3. You write so well. It is great to hear the real life experiences my kids write of. I save them on my computer, print them out and put them in a notebook. I too love that my ring was a special design. I had an interested experience recently regarding my ring which i hope to write about on my blog soon.
    Love you, MOM

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  4. That is really neat, Melody, that you and Nathan both were such an important part of the creation of your ring. That makes it so much more meaningful!

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